A love relationship is about union and equal exchange. In a love relationship there is “ME & YOU”, where “the ME” “the &” and “the YOU” are equally relevant. “&” is the relationship, the space between the two people. In order for a love relationship to be sustainable, the “&” needs to be free to grow out of the contribution of both partners, equally.
Often though we bring with us, consciously or not, the baggage of what we have learned from family, society and ex-partners about what a couple is, what it means to be a man or a woman. We have expectations about sexuality, children, family. To release old patterns and clear our system, is to make space for a partner and allow our love relationship to grow freely and with creativity.